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She says that me taking her to expensive dinners and stuff of that nature is moving too fast and that I do too many nice things.She feels that if she does not reciprocate, then it makes her feel like the bad guy or some such nonsense.My relationships at that point would go something like this: we would meet, there would be a spark, we’d hang out a few times, after a few weeks I would freak out and feel trapped and suffocated, I would then lose all interest in the relationship and would do whatever I could to sabotage it.I felt guilty but also kind of alarmed at my inability to feel anything.Eventually, I softened and started to warm up to the possibility of being in a relationship. He was really cute, really sweet, had a good job, and seemed pretty much perfect for me.I liked him a lot at first, well a lot in relation to how much I was capable of liking anyone at that point which wasn’t really that much.I’d check my phone constantly, worry about whether or not I should send another text, and always wonder WHY…why is she not talking to me?
So when guys reach out to me asking, reasons a girl goes MIA. Stop dwelling on the fact that she hasn’t responded.To a guy, here are the things that change after he has a girlfriend:-He's off the market-He can't look around as much (or as obviously?) -He can't cheat or date other people -He is most likely in it for the long haul (whether that's a few months or a few years)I think women who avoid titles have the same issues.I’ve known her all my life, since her parents and mine have been friends for over 30 years.She lives in NYC but is moving home to Buffalo to go to law school this July, and I’m here at medical school in Buffalo. She says she feels like she’s in more of a relationship with me then she’s felt in her past relationships, which she considered to be actual relationships.
She also is not the best communicator of her feelings when it comes to how she personally feels.